Each human being is born as something new, something that never existed before. Each is born with the capacity to win at life. Each person has a unique way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking. Each has his or her own unique potentials---capabilities and limitations. Each can be a significant, thinking, aware, and creative being---a productive person, a winner.

The word “winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society.

Winners do not dedicated their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.

Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and don’t pretend to have all the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their own conclusions. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them.

Winners do not play “helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives. They don’t give others a false authority over them. Winners are their own bosses and know it.

A winner’s timing is right. Winners respond appropriately to the situation. Their responses are related to the message sent and preserve the significance, worth, well-being, and dignity of the people involved. Winners know that for everything there is a season and for every activity a time.

Although winners can freely enjoy themselves, they can also postpone enjoyment, can discipline themselves in the present to enhance their enjoyment in the future. Winners are not afraid to go after what he wants, but they do so in proper ways. Winners do not get their security by controlling others. They do not set themselves up to lose.

A winner cares about the world and its peoples. A winner is not isolated from the general problems of society, but is concerned, compassionate, and committed to improving the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international adversity, a winner’s self-image is not one of a powerless individual. A winner works to make the world a better place.





      每个人作为一个全新的,独一无二的个体,生而拥有在生活中赢得胜利的能力。每个人看,听,触,闻,想的方式都是独特的。每个人都有各自特有的潜力---能力和局限。每个人都可以成为一个重要的,有想法,有悟性和创意的人。-----一个富有成效的人,一个成功者。

     “成功者和”失败者” 这两个词有着多种意思。当我们说一个人是成功者时,这并不意味着有人就要失败。对我们来说,成功者指的是一个有诚信,值得信任,有责任心,真诚,同时也是一个个体和这个社会的一员。

     成功者不会将自己的生活陷于自己所幻想的一个概念,他们只是做自己。他们不会费力去表现,做作和操纵别人。他们知道真爱和假爱,真愚蠢和假愚蠢,有文化和假装有文化的区别。赢家不需要戴一副面具示人。

     成功者敢于实践自己的想法,利用自己所学知识。他们能从别人的观点里面区分出事实,并且不会假装知道所有答案。他们聆听别人说话,分析他们所说的,得出自己的结论。成功者不仅会欣赏和尊敬别人,他们不会被别人完全下定义,推翻,限制,或敬畏。

    成功者不喜欢扮演无助或抱怨的角色。相反,他们把责任视为己任。他们不会假装权威。成功者清楚的知道自己就是老板。

     成功者的时机是正确的。他们根据情况适当的回复。他们的回复以发出的信息和保持一个人的意义,价值,幸福,自尊为主。他们知道每件事都有一个时期,每个活动都需要一个时间。

    成功者不仅能自由的享受自我,也可以暂停享受,他们可以打理好现在的自己以提升将来的自己。赢家们不怕追求自己想要的,l他们用适当的方式追求自己的理想。赢家们不通过控制别人来获取安全感,他们不允许自己输。

      一个成功者关心世界和人民。他们不会跟社会问题隔绝,而是关心,同情,并致力于提高生活质量。甚至是面对国家和国际灾难,成功者的自我印象不是一个无能的个体。一个成功者致力于让世界变得更美好/




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