Each human being is born as something new, something that never existed before. Each is born with the capacity to win at life. Each person has a unique way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking. Each has his or her own unique potentials---capabilities and limitations. Each can be a significant, thinking, aware, and creative being---a productive person, a winner.
The word “winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicated their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.
Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and don’t pretend to have all the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their own conclusions. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them.
Winners do not play “helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives. They don’t give others a false authority over them. Winners are their own bosses and know it.
A winner’s timing is right. Winners respond appropriately to the situation. Their responses are related to the message sent and preserve the significance, worth, well-being, and dignity of the people involved. Winners know that for everything there is a season and for every activity a time.
Although winners can freely enjoy themselves, they can also postpone enjoyment, can discipline themselves in the present to enhance their enjoyment in the future. Winners are not afraid to go after what he wants, but they do so in proper ways. Winners do not get their security by controlling others. They do not set themselves up to lose.
A winner cares about the world and its peoples. A winner is not isolated from the general problems of society, but is concerned, compassionate, and committed to improving the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international adversity, a winner’s self-image is not one of a powerless individual. A winner works to make the world a better place.
每个人都是作为一个全新的,钱多为由的新生命诞生的。每个人生下来就有去赢的能力。每个人都有独特的视角,听觉,触感,品味和思考方式。每个人都有他或她独特的潜能——能力与局限上的独特之处。每个人都可以成为一个有意义,有想法,有意识,有创造力的存在——一个能生产的人,一个赢家。
“赢家”和“败者”有很多意义。当我们将一个人作为赢家提起,并不是说这个人使另外的人失败。对我们而言,一个赢家会作为一个独立的个体和社会的一分子来真正去响应可靠,信任,责任以及诚恳这些品质。
赢家不会致力于让他们的生活变成一种想象出来应该是怎么样的概念,而是他们就是他们本身,不会用自己的力量去表演,维护,假装并且操纵其他。他们清楚存在爱和表现爱之间有不同之处,存在愚蠢和表现愚蠢有不同之处,存在知识和表现知识有不同之处。赢家不需要藏在面具之下。
赢家不会害怕践行他们的思想,使用他们的知识。他们可以从意见中提炼真理,不需要假装知道所有的答案。他们听其他人的想法,评价他们所说的,但是有自己的结论。尽管赢家会崇拜和尊重其他人,他们并不会完全确定,被拆毁,被依附或者敬畏他们。
赢家不会显得“无助”,也不会责备他人。相反,他们会为自己的生活负责。他们不会给予别人一个错误的凌驾于他们之上的权利。赢家是自己的老板,并且他们很清楚这一点。
一个赢家的时间选择是正确的。赢家会对状况有适合的回应。他们的回应与传达的信息,包含的意义,人类的价值,幸福,尊严相联系。赢家知道一切事情都有季节,每个活动都有一个时间。
尽管赢家可以享受自己的生活,他们也可以将快乐推迟,在当下约束自己,在未来享受快乐。赢家不会害怕之后才得到自己想要的,但是他们用正确的方式去得到。赢家不是通过控制别人来得到安全。他们不会让自己失败。
一个赢家关心这个世界和所有民族。一个赢家不会与这个社会上的问题分离,反而十分关心,有热情,承诺去改善生活质量。甚至面对国家和国际上的敌人,一个赢家的自我形象也不会是一个毫无力量的个体。赢家致力于使世界变得更好。