According to some social surveys, we can see that the only child in most Chinese families feels lonely in some ways.Why the only child feels lonely?Is loneliness a terrible thing?
Compared with the western, the Chinese children are shyer in communication, which is a reason to make them lack of friends and companies.On the other hand, as the only child in the family, they can’t enjoy the happiness from brother or sister.When they meet some troubles, they have to deal with them by themselves; they can’t get help from their family fellows.Therefore, compared with the children who have brother or sister, the onlychild would feel lonelier.
However, is loneliness completely a bad thing?Obviously, the answer is no, because loneliness also can bring something good for them.It is reported that the only child possesses more advantages than other children in personality and in thought.
Firstly, the only child is more independent in personality.Lacking of help from others, they are used to dealing with all kinds of things by themselves as much as possible.Thus, the only child would be more independent in life and they can endure more setbacks and pressure.Inaddition, when they leave their parents and start to live alone, they would meet fewer difficulties.But the precondition is that they don’t rely on their parents deeply.
Moreover, the only child has wider horizon than others.As the only kid in the family, they can enjoy better conditions in life or in education, and they have more opportunities to get in touch with fresh things and accept higher education.In this premise, loneliness gives them more time and space to think after study.As the saying goes, genius is the product of the loneliness.Einstein is a good example.Therefore, on the one hand, the only child feels lonely. But at the same time, one can enjoy loneliness when thinking.Loneliness brings more chances to think of meaning about life and future.
In a word, the only child feels lonely but also can get some benefits.Learning to enjoy loneliness, one would be easier to taste the real life.
通过一些社会调查，我们能看到在大多数中国家庭的独生子女，在某种程度上会感觉到孤单。为什么他们会觉得孤单？孤单是一件可怕的事吗？ 与西方国家相比，中国孩子在交流方面显得更害羞，这也是他们缺少朋友和伙伴的一个原因。另外，因为是家里唯一的孩子，所以他们感受不到有兄弟姐妹的快乐。当遇到某些困难时，他们得不到家庭成员的帮助而不得不自己处理。因此，和有兄弟姐妹的孩子相比，独生子女会感觉更孤单。
然而，孤独是一件完全不好的事吗？显而易见的，答案是否定的，因为孤独也会为他们带来一些好事。据报道，在个性和思想方面独生子女比起其它孩子拥有更多的优势。
首先，独生子女在性格方面会更独立。因为缺少别人的帮助，他们通常自己解决所有的事情。 因此，独生子女在生活中会更加独立，他们会忍耐很多挫折和压力。另外，当他们离开父母，开始独立时，他们会遇到较少的困难。但是，前提是他们不再依赖他们的父母。
wider horizon 更广阔的的视野
此外，独生子女比别人有更广阔的视野。作为家庭里唯一的孩子，在生活和教育中，他们会享受到更好的条件。他们会有更多的机会接触新鲜事物，并接受更高的教育。在这些前提下，孤独给了他们更多的时间和空间在学习之余思考。正如俗语所说，天才是孤独的产物。爱因斯坦就是一个最好的例子。因此，一方面，独生子女会感觉到孤单，但同时，他们在思考时也会享受孤单。孤独带给他们更多的机会去思考生活和未来的意义。
总之，独生子女会感到孤单，但同时也会得到一些益处。学会享受孤独吧，你会更容易体验到真实的人生。
总结：英译汉。一篇很好的六级文章，哈哈。作为独生子女，还是有赞同的地方。