According to some social surveys, we can see that the only child in most Chinese families feels lonely in some ways.Why the only child feels lonely?Is loneliness a terrible thing?

Compared with the western, the Chinese children are shyer in communication, which is a reason to make them lack of friends and companies.On the other hand, as the only child in the family, they can’t enjoy the happiness from brother or sister.When they meet some troubles, they have to deal with them by themselves; they can’t get help from their family fellows.Therefore, compared with the children who have brother or sister, the onlychild would feel lonelier.

However, is loneliness completely a bad thing?Obviously, the answer is no, because loneliness also can bring something good for them.It is reported that the only child possesses more advantages than other children in personality and in thought.

Firstly, the only child is more independent in personality.Lacking of help from others, they are used to dealing with all kinds of things by themselves as much as possible.Thus, the only child would be more independent in life and they can endure more setbacks and pressure.Inaddition, when they leave their parents and start to live alone, they would meet fewer difficulties.But the precondition is that they don’t rely on their parents deeply.

Moreover, the only child has wider horizon than others.As the only kid in the family, they can enjoy better conditions in life or in education, and they have more opportunities to get in touch with fresh things and accept higher education.In this premise, loneliness gives them more time and space to think after study.As the saying goes, genius is the product of the loneliness.Einstein is a good example.Therefore, on the one hand, the only child feels lonely. But at the same time, one can enjoy loneliness when thinking.Loneliness brings more chances to think of meaning about life and future.

In a word, the only child feels lonely but also can get some benefits.Learning to enjoy loneliness, one would be easier to taste the real life.

       根据一些社会调查，我们得知大多数中国家庭的独生子女会因为各种原因而感到孤独。为什么独生子女会感到孤独呢？孤独是一件不好的事么？

        对比西方国家，中国孩子更加害羞与别人沟通，这也是为什么他们缺乏朋友与陪伴。另一方面，作为家里唯一的孩子，他们不能享受兄弟姐妹们带来的的欢乐。当他们面临困难的时候，他们无法得到来自家庭成员的帮助，只能自己一个人去克服。因此，对比有兄弟姐妹的孩子，独生子女更容易感到孤独。

        然而，孤独就一定是一件完全不好的事么？显而易见，答案是“不”，因为孤独也可以给他们带来益处。据报道，独生子女在性格与思想上比其他孩子拥有更多冒险的天性。

        首先，独生子女在性格上更加的独立。由于缺乏他人的帮助，他们更习惯于靠自己，尽自己所能地解决各种各样的事情。因此，独生子女在生活上更加的独立，而且更能承受挫折与压力。此外，当他们离开父母，开始自己一个人生活的时候，他们不会感到那么困难。但先决条件是他们不会过于依靠父母的帮助。

        此外，独生子女比一般孩子又有更加广阔的视野。作为家里唯一的孩子，他们能享受更好的教育条件，他们有更多的机会接触新鲜事物和接受更高的教育。在这个天前提下，孤独给了他们更多的时间与空间来在学习后进行思考。俗话说得好，天才是孤独的产物。爱因斯坦就是一个很好的例子。因此，一方面来说，独生子女会感到孤独，但是换言之，当人在思考的时候会享受孤独。孤独带给我们更多机会去思考人生与未来。

       总而言之，独生子女会感到孤独但同时也会得到好处。学会享受孤独，人才会真正体会到生活的滋味