人生在世，和“自己”相处最多，打交道最多，但是往往悟不透“自己”。

走上坡路时，往往把自己估计过高，似乎一切所求的东西都能唾手可得，甚至把运气和机遇也看作自己身价的一部分而喜不自胜。

人在不得意时，又往往把自己估计过低，把困难和不利也看作自己的无能，而实际上是被怯懦的面具窒息了自己鲜活的生命。

悟透自己，就是正确认识自己。也就是说要做一个冷静的现实主义者，既知道自己的优势，也知道自己的不足。我们可以憧憬，但期望值不能过高。因为在现实中，总是会打折扣的。可以迎接挑战，但是必须清楚自己的方向。也就是说，人一旦有了自知之明，也就没有什么克服不了的困难，没有什么过不去的难关。

要悟透自己，还要学会自我欣赏。只有学会认真欣赏自己，才能够拥有一个真正的自我。“金无足赤，人无完人”。每一个人，都有自己独特的魅力。你可能智力平平、貌不惊人，但不必垂头丧气；你可能生活坎坷、身处逆境，也不必自暴自弃。

In our life, the most familiar one is ourself, but we always do not understand ourself.

In tough time, we are often arrogant and it seems easy to gain what we are pursuing, even we are escasy to take the lucky and oppotunity as our value.

In depress, we usually look down upon ourself and take the difficulty and disavantages as our incompetant. Actually, we just kill our life by the mask of timid.

Understand ourself, it means correctly know ourself. In other words, we should be a calm realist, not only know our advantages but also disadvantages. Absolutely we have desires, but we should‘t appreciate it highly. Because in real life, there are always disappoinment. We can accept the challenge, but we need to know our direction. That is, when one knows the limitation, then nothing can be overcome.

Understand ourself, it needs to self-appreciated. Only one seriously appreciate themselves, they could possess a real one. There is no perfect man in the world. Everyone has their own special charm. You maybe not so smart or beautiful, but never mind. You maybe have some difficulties in your life, just get over it!