According to some social surveys, we can see that the only child in most Chinese families feels lonely in some ways.Why the only child feels lonely?Is loneliness a terrible thing?

Compared with the western, the Chinese children are shyer in communication, which is a reason to make them lack of friends and companies.On the other hand, as the only child in the family, they can’t enjoy the happiness from brother or sister.When they meet some troubles, they have to deal with them by themselves; they can’t get help from their family fellows.Therefore, compared with the children who have brother or sister, the onlychild would feel lonelier.

However, is loneliness completely a bad thing?Obviously, the answer is no, because loneliness also can bring something good for them.It is reported that the only child possesses more advantages than other children in personality and in thought.

Firstly, the only child is more independent in personality.Lacking of help from others, they are used to dealing with all kinds of things by themselves as much as possible.Thus, the only child would be more independent in life and they can endure more setbacks and pressure.Inaddition, when they leave their parents and start to live alone, they would meet fewer difficulties.But the precondition is that they don’t rely on their parents deeply.

Moreover, the only child has wider horizon than others.As the only kid in the family, they can enjoy better conditions in life or in education, and they have more opportunities to get in touch with fresh things and accept higher education.In this premise, loneliness gives them more time and space to think after study.As the saying goes, genius is the product of the loneliness.Einstein is a good example.Therefore, on the one hand, the only child feels lonely. But at the same time, one can enjoy loneliness when thinking.Loneliness brings more chances to think of meaning about life and future.

In a word, the only child feels lonely but also can get some benefits.Learning to enjoy loneliness, one would be easier to taste the real life.

根据社会调查，我们可以看到，只有孩子在大多数中国家庭觉得孤独了。为什么孩子感到孤独？孤独是一件可怕的事情？

与西方相比，中国孩子只不过沟通，这是一个原因，他们的朋友和企业"，以及家里的独生子，can’t享受快乐或sister.当他们遇到困难，他们必须处理他们自己；他们can’t从家庭fellows.Therefore相比有兄弟姐妹的孩子，独生子女会感到孤独。

然而，孤独是完全是件坏事吗？显然，答案是否定的，因为孤独也会带来一些好处them.It，独生子女拥有更多的优势比其他孩子的个性与思想。

首先，唯一的孩子更独立人格.Lacking帮助他人，他们用来处理各种各样的东西自己尽可能.Thus，唯一的孩子也会更独立生活，他们更能忍受挫折和压力.Inaddition，当他们离开。